Only you can determine the mood of your bedroom. Colour has an amazing effect on our moods and also on how we feel.
That is why it is extremely important to ensure that the colour you choose for your bedroom is perfect.
Colour therapy
Warm neutral colours like red, green and blue will work well in the bedroom.
Red is a very passionate colour and will also evoke that kind of mood, while blue and green are more calming and relaxing. Green is also associated with fertility and growth within the marriage and a good choice to be used in moderation. The problem is that red can also lead to aggression, so if you do decide to incorporate this colour into your bedroom, do it moderately by adding a red comforter or pillows and not by painting your walls red as this could be too much. White or beige are ideal colours for your walls, as these will go well with any other colour that you choose.
Do not choose colours like yellow (which can lead to great irritation and nervousness) or pink (which may make the man in your life feel uncomfortable).
Dimmers and candles
One of the easiest ways to establish a romantic mood in the bedroom is with effective lighting methods.
The lighting in your bedroom should be muted and cosy in comparison with the rest of your home. This effect can be established by bedside lamps with muted lampshades and lower wattage bulbs, dimmer switches that will enable you to set the mood or coloured lights (like lava lamps) that can help to create a specific mood – coloured bulbs can also be used to create this effect.
Another option is by adding candle holders, but ensure that you put them where they are safe. Nothing sets a more romantic mood, than good old fashioned candlelight.
Sooth the senses
Another big secret when it comes to creating a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom is to ensure that the scent or smell of your bedroom is pleasing to both parties.
Scented candles are a good and subtle way to add fragrance to your room. Incense can also be used, but ensure that this is done in moderation, because if the scent is too strong it might be distracting and lead to a headache.
For a more fresh approach, bring in cut flowers from the garden to add a splash of colour and scent.
Décor
Add a personal touch to your bedroom with décor items.
Hang your favourite prints or photos in unusual frames; place a vase containing fresh flowers on your bedside tables; or display sculptures and figurines.
A soft and expensive rug can make a huge difference to your bedroom and is also a very inviting décor prop. Don’t go overboard on room accessories - clutter is not romantic.
Avoid décor items or prints that are too bright and colourful as this might lead to distraction.
Furniture
The most important piece of furniture in your home is definitely your bed.
One tends to forget the important part it plays in your day-to-day life. If your bed is not comfortable, you will not be able to sleep well – which will be damaging to your health – and it will most certainly kill the romance in your room as well. Choose a good mattress. Do not choose a bed or any other furniture pieces that are too big and can make the room feel cluttered.
Add a comfortable sofa to your bedroom for a cosy effect and a dressing panel or screen to include a bit of mystery and playfulness.
Soul music
No romantic setting is complete without the right piece of music playing in the background.
The trick is not to make your radio system too visible, but to make it blend in with the rest of the room. Try hiding the speakers in strategic places like behind the headboard or on top of your pelmets and cover the sound system with a scarf.
Remember not to put the music too loud, as this will only lead to distraction. Also choose calming music – preferably without words.
Peek-a-boo
Window covering also plays an important role in the bedroom. Curtains are your protective barrier against the outside world as they ensure privacy and will also have an effect on the lighting in your room.
Choose heavy curtains in neutral colours for your bedroom windows. The colour of your curtains should complement the rest of your bedroom otherwise it will lead to distraction. Always remember to properly close the curtains when you are trying to establish a romantic mood, as even the tiniest gap can spoil the mood and you never know who might be peeking through...
Touch of class
Only the best quality sheets and bedding are good enough for your bedroom. Choose pure cotton or luxurious silk sheets and pillow cases in neutral, solid colours or patterns that can enhance the mood and convey your personal style. Top your bed with a comforter, duvet, or feather blanket for dramatic effect and to set the tone in your bedroom. No bed can be deemed romantic without lots of pillows. You’ll want to use a mix of pillow sizes and shapes.
Article courtesy of: www.home-dzine.co.za
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